Thursday Thirteen #323

 
About our 13 most recent First Ladies.The role of First Lady fascinates me because it's so undefined. Each woman who has held it has fulfilled it in her own way, and in doing so I think she reveals a great deal about herself and her times.

This list is not meant to be exhaustive. It's just a quick snapshot of how each woman handled her very public role.

1. Jill Biden is the first First Lady to continue at her chosen profession -- teaching at North Virginia Community College -- while living at the White House. She uses her platform as First Lady to advocate for military families.

2. Melania Trump was only the second foreign born First Lady (John Quincy Adams' wife, Louisa, was born in England). Her "Be Best" campaign advocated against cyber bullying.

3. Michelle Obama was our first African American First Lady. She concentrated on family health by planting The White House Kitchen Garden (which continues to this day) and introducing Let's Move!, designed to encourage exercise and reduce childhood obesity.

4. Laura Bush is a former grade school teacher and librarian, and, as First Lady, organized the United States' first literary fair. Every year since 2001, The National Book Festival has hosted authors representing a variety of genres and offers programs to encourage young readers. It's free to the public and was held on August 12 this year.

5. Hillary Rodham Clinton concentrated on women's issues. In 1995 she told an audience in Beijing that there is no reason to exclude women from any discussion of human rights because "women's rights are human rights." She also wrote the best-seller, It Takes a Village, about the positive impact influences outside the immediate, biological family can have on children.

6. Barbara Bush embraced her image as America's Grandmother. She promoted childhood literacy by hosting a syndicated radio program called Mrs. Bush's Storytime during which she read children's books. She also wrote a popular children's book about the White House dog, Millie's Book. It reached #1 on the New York Times best-seller list and proceeds were donated to a literacy non-profit.

7.  Nancy Reagan is best known for "Just Say No." She maintained the first step to solving a problem is understanding it, so she focused on educating young people about drugs and the dangers of drug abuse.

8. Rosalyn Carter consciously eschewed glamor. The dress she wore to the Inaugural Ball was the same one she wore to the Atlanta balls when her husband Jimmy was elected governor. While she was First Lady, the White House Christmas Tree was decorated by school children with pine cones and home made egg shell ornaments. She also worked to remove the stigma attached to mental illness, saying it should be regarded as a health care issue, without moral judgement.

9. Betty Ford was the first divorcee to be First Lady. Known for her candor, she openly discussed her mastectomy in the hopes it would reassure other women. Like Hillary Clinton, she is perhaps better remembered for her work after leaving the White House, when she founded The Betty Ford Center for the treatment of alcohol and drug addiction.

10. Pat Nixon excelled at what she called "personal diplomacy." In 1969, she became the first First Lady to visit a combat zone when she went to Vietnam. She traveled alone and in non-campaign-related visits to 39 of the 50 states. She also went overseas without her husband to Guam, India, the Philippines, Indonesia, Thailand, Pakistan, Romania, and England. She insisted on a small entourage to save taxpayers money.

11. Lady Bird Johnson was a millionaire in her own right. Thanks to savvy investments in radio stations, she was our most financially independent and successful First Lady. As First Lady, she was involved in ecology and beautification. She was responsible for the planting of literally millions of flowers around Washington DC and even more with the 1965 Highway Beautification Act.

12. Jacqueline Kennedy is the one who started all this. Shortly after entering the White House she announced that she was concentrating on restoring it. Ever since, First Ladies have been expected to declare what their signature initiative would be. Though her legacy cast a long shadow across her successors, Jackie wasn't crazy about the title "First Lady." She preferred to be called, "Mrs. Kennedy." She wanted the public to remember that she was the mother to two very young children (Caroline was 3 and John was an infant when she moved into the White House) and they were her priority.

13. Mamie Eisenhower made the White House festive again. Because of the Depression and World War II, the traditional White House Easter Egg Roll had been suspended. She brought it back in 1953. Similarly she welcomed the press to see how the White House was once again being decorated for Christmas and Halloween. State dinners were colorful again, too, with lots of pink flowers on the tables. (Mamie liked pink.)

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August Happiness Challenge -- Day 23

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Today's Happiness: I can't choose!

I didn't expect today to be such a happy day, but it was. So much goodness, so unanticipated, that I can't choose just one.

a. My annual escrow analysis came in and not only will I be paying a little less every month, soon I'll be receiving a check for the overpayment! This makes me feel better about the economy -- my personal budget and the nation's.

b. My first-ever Social Security check was direct deposited. I put much of it into my savings account, bolstering my dental work fund and life/long term care insurance funds. It's such a relief to know that, when those bills inevitably come due, I won't have to touch my retirement funds to cover them.

c. I went to the doctor today for my annual physical. First of all, I just adore her and her office staff. Secondly, my bloodwork came back pretty close to normal in all areas. Not bad for an old broad.

d. Anthony Rizzo was photographed at Yankee Stadium this afternoon with a bat in hands. He was cleared by his neurologist to hit off the tee. On the one hand, it breaks my heart that an All-Star and World Series Champion is playing tee-ball like a pre-schooler. On the other hand, it's progress and done after consultation with a specialist. It makes me happy to anticipate him well again.

I'd know my lefty anywhere

   

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PS I can no longer participate in WWW.WEDNESDAY via that link because her blog won't accept Blogger comments. I mention this only to save you the frustration I experienced trying to link up.

1. What are you currently reading? Jackie: Public, Private, Secret by J. Randy Taraborrelli. Oh, I don't know why I'm reading this. I guess it's because whenever I hear about a new Jackie book I break into a trot, like a fire horse who hears the bell. J. Randy Taraborrelli is a popular, though not terribly respected, biographer who tends to treat the Kennedy family like celebrities, not historic figures, so I don't have terribly high hopes for this one. Yet I here I am!

 

It has started out promisingly, though. First Taraborrelli recounts his own dealings with Doubleday book editor Jacqueline Onassis. It's ironic since they are discussing his biographies of Diana Ross and why the second one was a better seller. Easy: it's more revealing and juicier. To hear one of the 20th century's most private women admit this so casually is jaw dropping. But, since it happened to Taraborrelli personally I don't doubt it happened. Plus her Doubleday coworkers recall her as a good teammate who appreciated the business side of publishing, so it squares.

Then it segues into John Warnecke's final memory of Jackie. It's 1994 and she knows she's dying. Warnecke was her lover for a short time, and now they're saying goodbye forever. Together they burned some of her personal correspondence in her fireplace. She was aware of her place in history and wouldn't destroy anything she wrote in her role as First Lady. But she didn't want her fame posthumously encroaching on the privacy of those who wrote to her. This, too, seems similar to the story told by Jackie's lifelong friend, Nancy Tuckerman, to biographer William Kuhn. 

 

So maybe this won't be a tawdry, trashy waste of my time after all. But I admit I'm still a little skeptical.

2. What did you recently finish reading? Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover. Tate Collins moves to a new city and stays with her big brother for a while until she gets settled. Pilot Miles Archer is her brother's neighbor and friend. They are instantly attracted, but neither of them is prepared for a relationship. Tate is juggling her busy schedule as an ER nurse with a heavy class load as she continues her education. Miles has a dark secret that has turned him off romance. So they settle for a purely physical relationship.

This book has more sex than I was expecting. Lots and lots of sex. In the shower and on a rug and in the cockpit of a plane and in the car and bent over the dining room table and sometimes even in a bed. At first the sex was sexy. Then it started to read clinically, like a how-to manual. Finally I just got curious about Miles, waiting for him to request a blow job as I've never known a man in real life who never, ever wanted oral sex. (I'm sorry, was that TMI? I'm just trying to emphasize that my mind wandered during the numerous sex scenes.)

It's weird because Hoover's best writing always comes after the sex. She expertly captures Tate's ache as she finds herself falling deeper in love with Miles.

I didn't hate this book. There was a plot twist I couldn't wait to reach and Tate seemed like a nice enough heroine. I just didn't like it. 

 

3. What will read next? I don't know.

 

  

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 22

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Today's Happiness: "We want you!"

So texted my friend Nancy. It was a light-hearted exchange. She wanted to know if I was busy "this weekend." I told her my Sunday was booked but on Saturday, "Nobody wants me. 😢"

I was joking while texting with Nancy but I admit I was feeling a little emotional today, too. Sometimes it feels like my oldest friend is going out of her way to make me feel unimportant. I know rationally she does this unintentionally -- she's doing everything she can to stay afloat while dealing with her very real medical/emotional issues. But still, no one wants to feel incidental.

So while Nancy doesn't realize it, she texted me about Saturday at the perfect time.

  

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 21

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Today's Happiness: Mild sauce on the side.

Today I treated myself to a carry-out chicken lunch. They forgot my cole slaw, but they gave me an extra mild sauce on the side, so I was happy. I don't like the sauce on the chicken, I use it for dipping the fries. 

I learned recently that the mild sauce I love so much is a Chicago thing. So here's a link. 

  

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 20

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Today's Happiness: Hilary passed her by

I'd been so worried about my oldest friend. She lives in Hesperia, California, which was in the path of Hurricane Hilary.

We talked tonight for several hours and she's not concerned about the storm at all. In fact, she seemed more concerned about her adult daughter's love life. This is such a relief! (That the storm seems to have passed her by, not that her daughter is lovelorn.)

 

Sunday Stealing

STOLEN FROM NED THE DUCK

Name Your Favorite…

Place: The Friendly Confines of Wrigley Field

The good ol' days, when Rizz was here where he belongs

    

Color: Pantone 294, aka Cubbie blue

Smell: I'm partial to cinnamon

Magazine: Online, I like The Athletic. In print, I like Vanity Fair. 

Texture: I like leaves. I touch them gently as I pass leafy bushes.

Thing to do when bored: This.  

    

Precious stone: Are pearls a precious stone?

Animal: I'm a crazy cat lady. This meme made me miss my noisy little man, Reynaldo. Though his operetta would be called, It's Morning Because I Say So.

    

Time in history: The 60s. 1860s or 1960s. Fascinated by them both.

    

Font: Just about anything but courier.

    

Sound: A cat's purr

   

Fruit: It changes: sometime apples, sometimes peaches. I like the taste of banana in smoothies. 

   

Vegetable: Peas.

Store/shop: Target.

    

Quote:

    

Historical figure: John F. Kennedy (the President, not John N. Kennedy, the unfortunately named Louisiana Senator)

    

Letter:  I find the capital L and E are the most fun to write in cursive

    

Memory: It makes me happy to remember taking my nephew to his first MLB game. Now he's a baseball writer!

    

Dessert: I'll have something chocolate.

    

Candy: I'll have something chocolate.

    

Restaurant: There's a deli around the corner I long to return to. They have a really good smoked turkey sandwich.

    

Language: English, because it's the one I know.

    

Thing to learn about: Presidents and First Ladies

    

Thing about yourself: I am a good friend.

August Happines Challenge -- Day 19

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Today's Happiness: $1.80

That's how much I'll be saving on my electric bill this month. No, it's not much. But that's not the point.

On the 16th, Commonwealth Edison sent those of us participating in the program a notice to reduce our energy consumption during a peak usage time that afternoon. I did. And this morning, I learned my efforts were enough to warrant a discount.

It felt nice to know I helped reduce the stress on our energy grid on a hot August afternoon.  

Saturday 9

 Saturday 9: Michelle (1965)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

 

1) In this song, Paul McCartney sings to Michelle in French, "Sont des mots qui vont très bien ensemble." Can you say anything else in French? The usual: bonjour, au revoir, merci, oui, non. I wish I had a greater facility with foreign languages, but I don't.

2) Paul admits he that, as a teenager, he'd perform the first few bars at parties to impress girls. It was John Lennon who encouraged him to "turn it into a proper song." Tell us about a time you were glad you took advice from a friend or coworker. "Detach with love." My friend, Patrick, who is also friends with Henry and Reg, has wisely counseled me to not allow myself to get tied up in so many knots over them. Since Henry's TBI, Henry's husband Reg has made so many consequential and unwise decisions and my heart has been broken every way possible. But Patrick is right: I cannot do anything about it except love them. It's hard, because my impulse is to dive in and fix things! But the only one who can change the path they are on is Reg, and no one is helped by me going all tearful and nuts.

 

3) A big Elvis fan, Paul is proud to own the bass that was played on the 1954 recording of "That's Alright, Mama." Tell us about one of your prized possessions. Since we're talking about the fabulous and influential Lads from Liverpool: I have a signed, numbered and framed print of Klaus Voorman's Anthology in my dining room. 

This artwork was converted into the cover of the three Beatles Anthology CDs

4) John was also an Elvis fan and honored The King by naming one of his cats Elvis. Do you share your home with any pets? If so, let us know their names. My little gray and white girlcat is Constance MacKenzie (from Peyton Place) and my massive tuxedo cat, right beside me as I answer these, is Roy Hobbs (from The Natural).

5) John was a heavy smoker who often attempted to quit. He tried hypnosis but that didn't work. Have you ever been hypnotized? Nope

6) George Harrison fell in love with Hawaii and bought a 63-acre estate. If you could take off tomorrow for a vacation to any of our 50 states, which one would you choose? Hawaii has naturally been on mind because of the Maui wildfires. I would love to go there and help in a meaningful way. But, if I was off on a vacation, I think I'd head to California to visit my oldest friend.

6) While Ringo Starr quit signing autographs for fans in 2008, he will donate autographed memorabilia to charity for auction. Have you ever bid on an item at auction? Did you win? I used to bid on eBay auctions. Now eBay more often offers "Buy It Now" at a set price.

 
7) As a young boy, Ringo had a severe case of appendicitis and his appendix was removed. Do you still have your appendix? Yes, though I learned in researching this stuff that nearly 10% of adult Americans don't.

 

8) In 1965 -- before Advil and Tylenol and Aleve -- Americans took aspirin to relieve pain. If we peered into your medicine chest, would we find aspirin? None in my medicine chest. I keep my meds in the kitchen because so many of them go down better with milk. And no, there's no aspirin there.

9) Random question: You're at dinner with a married couple who begins to argue. Would you intercede and try to make peace? Or would you just sit back and mind your own business? Does their argument in any way involve me or something I said? If it did and I could clarify, or help shut it down, I would. Otherwise I would cringingly mind my own business and hope it ended soon.

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 18

Today's Happiness: Carole Lombard Day on TCM Summer Under the Stars.

I adore her. She's beautiful and funny and warm and just an all-around great dame. I've seen two of her movies already today and I may just stay up all night watching more. (The next one, My Man Godfrey, is one of my all-time favorites.)

It's hard to imagine someone as eternally alive as Lombard would be gone at the age of 33. It was January 1942, right after the bombing of Pearl Harbor. She kicked off the nation's first bond drive in Indianapolis, raising $2 million to help the war effort. ($2 million in 1942 would be approx. $35 million today) Then she boarded a plane to go back home to Hollywood, and her husband, Clark Gable. The plane went down near Las Vegas, no survivors.

"She died for her country," said the press release from the Treasury Department. FDR chimed in, "She gave unselfishly of her time and talent to serve her government."

Enjoy 60 seconds of Lombard glamor and charm.

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 17

Today's Happiness: She's a sweetie.

For someone who has no words, my Connie Cat communicates exquisitely. She starts the day by jumping onto my bed and cuddling with me. Oh, how she loves her tummy rubs! When I'm on the computer, usually at the dining room table, she's next to the screen, looking into my eyes, hoping I will do the right thing and get her a snack. Whenever I am on the sofa, she silently appears. No petting required, she just likes being nearby. 

The rest of the time she amuses herself. There are windows to look out, toys to play with, naps to take, and Roy Hobbs to run with and groom. She's a lively girl, and a very sweet one.

Thursday Thirteen #322

Thirteen maladies women can face after 50. Right now, at this moment, as I post this I feel fine. But feeling fine at 65 is something I treasure now, whereas at 30 I took it for granted. My body has experienced wear and tear and I'm not alone. Spinning around the internet I've found experts agree these are issues that commonly plague women over 50.

It can be overwhelming. I feel lucky to have a primary care physician I can talk to about my concerns and I trust if she can't treat me, she'll point me to a specialist who can.

1. Thinning hair. Women over 50 find their hair thins or falls out, which can cause anxiety. No one needs anxiety. If thinning hair bothers you, talk to a dermatologist about possible treatments.

2. Bladder problems. Do you leak? Feel an urgency to go? Struggle to go? Women over 50 frequently experience one of these three. Drink more water and less caffeine.

3.   Obesity. Don't like what your scale reads? You're not alone. Nearly 45% of Americans over 50 can be considered obese.

4.   Hearing loss. Nearly 10% of us deal with this. I'm one of them. I have CC on my TV all the time.

5. Vision problems. Do yourself a favor and get checked for glaucoma and cataracts every year. (I have an appointment in a few weeks.)

6. Back pain. Watch your weight and exercise. Be careful how much you lift and how you lift it.

7.   High blood pressure. Losing weight, limiting salt and stopping smoking can help manage this.

8.   Diabetes. It's estimated 1 in 10 of us will face this over our lifetimes. Four members of my social circle are dealing with it.

9.   Heart disease. While men experience this more than women, it's not like women are immune. Nearly 10% of women over 60 will experience this.

10.   Osteoarthritis. Genetics may play a big part in this one. If you have a family history of osteoarthritis, move more and lose weight.

11.   Osteoporosis: As many as 54 million Americans deal with this and it can to fractures and broken bones. Calcium and Vitamin D are your friends here.

12.   COPD: Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. Take care of yourself by quitting tobacco.

13. Cancer. For me, this is the scariest one. Genetics play a big part, but you can do yourself a favor by eating better, staying out of the sun, and not smoking.

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August Happiness Challenge -- Day 16

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Today's Happiness: Good weather.

Chicago winters build character. We don't get much of a spring here, sliding straight into summer. Chicago summers can be dispiriting affairs, sticky-humid and rainy. 

So I treasure days like today. Not a cloud in the sky. 82º. Made running errands a genuine pleasure. 

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WWW. WEDNESDAY asks three questions to prompt you to speak bookishly. To participate, and to see how other book lovers responded, click here. 

PS I can no longer participate in WWW.WEDNESDAY via that link because her blog won't accept Blogger comments. I mention this only to save you the frustration I experienced trying to link up.

1. What are you currently reading? Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover. I've been taking public transportation more often lately, and that made me aware of how popular "CoHo" is. Her books are in commuters' hands and on shelves at the train station. I haven't seen an author dominate like this since Michelle Obama's Becoming was absolutely everywhere. So I'm curious to give her a try.

I went with Ugly Love because it was available at the library. Tate Collins is an ER nurse. She meets hot pilot Miles Archer. They don't fall in love because they don't really like each other ... but did I mention Miles is hot? So far it feels formulaic but that doesn't mean it can't be fun. Especially since the book I just finished is very heavy.

2. What did you recently finish reading? Eisenhower: The White House Years by Jim Newton. I finished this 450+ page book with a greater knowledge of Eisenhower, and a confused opinion of him. There is much to admire: he guided us through WWII, and if that was the end of his story the world should be grateful. But he went on to be POTUS at a time when many American politicians and military men were actually eager to drop another bomb. (Matsu and Quemoy? Really?) So it could be argued that Eisenhower helped save the world twice. 

 

He was imaginative. We routinely take road trips now, in large part because of Ike championed the interstate highway system. Suburbs cropped up and continue to flourish because it's easy for Americans to drive to work. Just that one innovation makes his lasting impact on American life incalculable. He was great for the economy, too. After he left office, no President until Bill Clinton would preside over a budget where we were in the black.

But domestically? Eisenhower let Sen. Joe McCarthy terrorize witnesses way too long. A President as popular and powerful as Ike could have publicly interceded, but didn't. And oh! Race relations! Yes, he was President when Brown vs. Board of Education went into effect, but he never came out in favor it. In fact, he fought with speechwriters and sparred with the press when they tried to get him to admit he was against "separate but equal." He actually said to Chief Justice Warren of segregationists: "These are not bad people. All they are concerned about is to see that their sweet little girls are not required to sit in school alongside some big, overgrown Negroes."* What the fuck?!

That comment disgusted and disillusioned me because, as Supreme Commander, Eisenhower sent more than a million "overgrown Negroes" to fight and die overseas in WWII. The author, who is very apologetic about Ike's attitude toward blacks, chalks it up to the fact that he simply didn't know any while growing up and didn't serve with any in the Army. They may not have served beside you as your equal in the military, General, but they did serve. I believe he had a moral obligation to view them as human beings.

 

And Eisenhower gave us Nixon. There's ample evidence that Eisenhower didn't really want him as VP in the first place ("The Checkers Speech") and in 1956 was serious about dropping Nixon from the ticket, moving him to a Cabinet position. Nixon didn't make it easy for him (the man who led the invasion of Normandy Beach was surprisingly conflict averse)  and so Nixon remained as Vice President ... to a President who was hospitalized with a heart attack and a stroke and a bowel obstruction, all while he was in office. Why, knowing his health was compromised, did he keep Nixon one heartbeat away from the Presidency? Why, understanding how immature and politically craven Nixon was, did Eisenhower endorse him for the top job in 1960? Again, what the fuck?!

 

But he saved the world ... twice. So there's that.

I'm very glad I read this book because it's well written (many of those little, personal observations that help me feel like I know the man) and it taught me a lot. Even though I yelled, "What the fuck?!" quite often.

 

3. What will read next? I don't know.

 *Those closest to Eisenhower don't dispute he said this, just that he was angry at Warren for sharing it. After all, it was "off the record." As they say, Mr. President, the true test of a man's character is what he does when no one is looking .... or what he says "off the record.'

 

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 15

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Today's Happiness: Rachel.

She's my yoga instructor and she's wonderful. While I'm not the best judge of these things, I suspect I'm consistently the worst in the class. But today I had an "off" morning, even by my low standards.

After class she cornered me as I was putting my bricks and bolster away. She asked me if I was OK, and I told her, frankly, no. Early in the class, during one of the poses, I saw my left arm and leg shaking. I saw them shaking, but didn't feel it. I was completely creeped out by this.

Rachel reassured me it was nothing to worry about, just my muscles reacting to being used in a different way. Drink plenty of water the rest of the day, she advised. 

"And next week I'll just push through, right?"

"You don't have to," she said, reminding me that yoga is "a feeling practice, not a thinking practice." If something doesn't feel right or comfortable, there's no reason for me to do it. This class is about enhancing my flexibility and feeling good in my own body. Period.

Also, she told me I don't look anywhere near my age.

Is it any wonder that I adore Rachel?

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 14

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Today's Happiness: The cutest lobster.

I got a thank you note today from my friend's son. He became a dad around Christmastime and I sent a couple of gifts. I forgot about them, actually, but he was specific in his note. I sent a Chicago Cubs bib and a hooded lobster bath towel.  Since they live in New York, they can't be sure that their baby boy will be a Cubs fan, but I'm told after his bath he's "the cutest lobster."

I don't know what the new baby gift thank you etiquette is. I don't care. Getting the note today out of the blue made me happy.

August Happiness Challenge -- Day 13

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Today's Happiness: Within my budget.

The problem with saving for retirement is you have no idea how long retirement is going to last. I want to enjoy myself today, but not at the expense of comfort in my dotage.

So I am trying to economize, especially when I socialize. I give myself an allowance every week, and whatever I don't use I put in the big beer stein on my kitchen counter. Today I paid for the train, brunch and movie with cash from the stein.

I don't feel like I'm depriving myself. I feel like I'm taking care of myself. It makes me happy.

Five very good hours

I know I should go out more. I know I should interact with others regularly. Just because being alone is very comfortable for me doesn't mean it's healthy. I've discussed this with my shrink a million times since covid shutdown and our emergence.

So, when friends invite me out, I really try to get to yes. Lately the one who has been asking the most often is Elaine, from movie group. She is kind and generous and I am flattered that she thinks I'm neat. But she can annoy me. I know, it's me, not her. She just doesn't get me the way John and my oldest friend do (of course, they often annoy me, too; like I say, it's me, not her). 

Anyway, Sunday we spent a really nice day together. I rode the rails downtown again -- second Sunday in a row -- and had brunch. Then it was off to The Music Box Theater for Cat Video Fest 2023. It was fun and Elaine is an even more indulgent cat lady than I am, so she was the perfect companion for this. Plus it was a fundraiser for The Red Door Animal Shelter.

Then it was back on the train and I was back in my front door at 3:00. I was happy.

That's enough. I think 5 hours is my limit for socializing.