1. What are you currently reading? The Reagans: Portrait of a Marriage by Anne Edwards. I recently watched, and enjoyed, a Ronald Reagan movie on TCM and it occurred to me I know very little about the man. Oh, I know about his Presidency and I admit his worldview left me cold. Today I'm curious about Ronald Reagan, the person, not the politician.
So I picked up this book by Anne Edwards. Ms. Edwards writes highly readable biographies. This is another. It's moving along at a brisk pace and yes, so far I'm getting an idea of the man behind The Reagan Revolution. I admit I like the old boy. An interesting combination of spiritual, optimistic and remote. That ability to withdraw, to keep a part of himself to himself, seems to be the coping mechanism of a preternaturally upbeat man who grew up loving his disappointing alcoholic father.
Nancy is even more complicated. She loved her husband sincerely and put him first. Ahead of all else, all the time. This made her a deficient mother, stepmother and employer. The book attempts to explain this by sharing Nancy's childhood -- her father abandoned the family, so her mother left two-year-old Nancy with grandma when she traveled with a theater group and just swooped in and out of the girl's life for years, then Nancy's adored stepfather was reluctant to adopt her and give her his name. This left Nancy insecure, and caused her to cling to "Ronnie" desperately. OK, that's an explanation but not an excuse for how she treated her household. You would think that a woman who longed for her own stepfather's love and approval would have been more sensitive to Reagan's children by his first marriage. I guess this is a real-life example of how toxic family cycles come to be.
The Reagan book sounds good. I will be on the lookout for the Shari Lapena book since I just finished her latest - Not a Happy Family. Thanks for sharing what you are reading. I always love book ideas. :-)
ReplyDeleteI am now curious about the Reagan book. I had issues with his policies and attitudes, but there was something very dignified about him that we haven't seen with recent Republican presidents, lol.
ReplyDeleteI read some books by his daughter, Patti Davis, and enjoyed the insider view of their family.
I also love Shari Lapena's books. Here's MY WWW POST
You have me really intrigued about the Reagan book now, and that's not something I'd normally say about him. I may have to look into that one. Here's my WWW post.
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