Saturday, February 17, 2018

Saturday 9

Saturday 9: Baby Love (1964)

1) When this song was popular, the Supremes were known for their elaborate hairstyles, make up and full-length gowns. When was the last time you got dressed up? The memorial service for my friend's husband. Even in her grief, she teased me. "Gal! You're not wearing jeans!"

2) "The girls," as they were known to the engineers and executives at Motown Records, were Florence Ballard, Mary Wilson and Diana Ross. They began singing together when they were high school classmates. Are you still in touch with any friends from your high school days? Just one. I owe my oldest friend an email.

3) Mary Wilson was born in Mississippi and her family moved a great deal before settling in Detroit, where she fatefully met Florence and Diana. Were you uprooted often when you were a child? Or did you spend your school years in the same neighborhood? My family never moved. My mom and dad both grew up in that town. Both sets of my grandparents lived there, too. My kid sister raised her family there, as well.

4) The Supremes began as a quartet called the Primettes. In addition to Mary, Flo and Diana, there was Betty McGlown. In 1960, Betty left the group to get married and was replaced by Barbara Martin. In 1962, Barbara left the group to have a baby. They quit trying to replace the fourth voice, soldiered on as a trio, and made pop history. Have you ever found yourself in a position similar to Betty's or Barbara's, where you had to make a difficult decision and choose between your personal life and your career? In my 20s, I was involved in a very, very unhealthy relationship. We met at work, where we were both writers. When he found out that I made more than he did, he freaked out. Did all our friends know? Was I trying to humiliate/castrate him? So I did something then that has me shaking my head today: I quit and found a lower-paying job. It turned out for the best, though, because I really hit my stride creatively and I went from having a job to a career.

5) Thinking of babies and "baby love," is anyone in your life expecting a baby in 2018? Nope.

6) With twelve #1 hits on the Billboard Hot 100, The Supremes remain America's most commercially successfully recording group, and this song (along with "Stop! In the Name of Love") is one of the most popular karaoke songs. If we handed you the mic this morning and absolutely insisted you perform, what song would you choose (any song, any genre)? This one. It has no notes that I can't hit.

7) Original group member Florence Ballard left the group in 1967. She died of cardiac arrest in 1976 at the age of 32. Since February is National Heart Month, it seems appropriate to ask: Is anyone in your life battling heart disease? My friend, John, suffers from congenital heart disease.

8) Florence Ballard's brother, Hank, wrote Chubby Checker's famous dance song, "The Twist." When did you last dance? I dance around the house all the time. I'm terrible at it, but it makes me happy.

9) Random question: Close your eyes and visualize the most beautiful place you've ever been. Now describe it to us. So you enter the structure and it's old. It's sunless and you can literally smell the history -- the beer and pretzel salt and hot dogs and sweat. Then you climb the gray cement stairs and VOILA! Everything is sunny and green and everyone is happy. That moment, when I see the outfield clock for the first time, never fails to thrill me.


  1. I really enjoyed your answers, especially the ones about your growing up and the difficult decision you made that turned out for the best. That's great! I envy you getting to grow up in the same town with family. It has never been something I got to experience. We both dance at home!! ;-)
    This was fun today. I loved dancing to the Supremes!

  2. I wish that I grew up around my cousins because I never really got to know them.
    And now my brother's family is the same way, scattered up and down the east coast and we see each other only on holidays.

  3. I'm guessing, as inviting as it may seem to be at this moment, Wrigley Field is probably pretty darn cold right now. But, why not- I say go for it!

  4. Yep, funerals require dressing up. Glad your friend could quip with you. Sweet.
    I still dance around from time to time. It is worth keeping this cute, fairly American, trait going. 💃🏻🕺
    That’s a lovely ballpark. I wish you many happy seasons watching the Cubs!

  5. I love that you had that kind of continuity growing up. I didn't always live where I do, but my dad's family did and I love having that kind of history and ties to the neighborhood. Sadly, the older folks are dying off and that sense of closeness is fading.
    I'd sing along with you (in my head or alone in the car) on I Love Rock 'n Roll. That, along with Journey's Open Arms, was a monster hit my senior year of high school.
    I knew that would be your most beautiful place. :)

  6. I am really glad you love baseball, even though I have no idea why it has any appeal. The fact that you keep it knocked into my mind on occasion seems like a good thing. It's a normal thing, baseball, and I need normal in a world that no longer is.

  7. Of course you described Wrigley! It almost makes me want to go there someday, too!