Saturday, February 24, 2018

Saturday 9

The Love Club (2013)

Unfamiliar with this week's song. Hear it here.

1) Lorde has said this song is about a time when she fell into "a bad crowd." Her high-maintenance new friends were all about their romantic dramas and it overwhelmed her. Have you ever had a friend who was just too much work? Oh, yes! I don't mind friends who are hard work if they invest in me, as well. But my coworker expects me to hang on her every word and then calibrate my responses based on her moods. Yet when I called the office to tell her I had to deal with a breast cancer scare (I'm fine, thank God!), her entire response was, "Yeah, OK."

2) She sings that she longs to be alone. Where do you go when you want peace and quiet? I cocoon at home. Sometimes my perfect weekend is one where the only person I speak to is the pizza delivery man.

3) Lorde credits her mother for encouraging her verbal skills. "Mum" let her join a theater class when she was just 5 and was always giving her books. Tell us about an encouraging, understanding adult who assisted you when you were growing up. My Cousin Rose. She was wonderfully supportive of me during my difficult teen years. When I think about how terrific she was then, it makes me sad to see how bitter she's become over time. But we love each other. We never let more than a week go by without reaching out.

4) Lorde is not the only celebrity from her class at Belmont School in Auckland, New Zealand. Olympian Eliza McCartney was a classmate who went on to win a bronze medal in Rio for the pole vault. Did you participate in any sports in high school? No.

6) Lorde wrote music for one of the Hunger Games soundtracks. Have you seen any of the Hunger Games movies, or read any of the books? No. I can never keep up with the movies and books I want to consumer, and The Hunger Games encompasses two genres I don't have much time for: YA and sci-fi. So, no.

7) Her favorite candy is Peanut M&Ms. Do you prefer Milk Chocolate, Peanut, Almond, Mint or Cripsy M&Ms? Peanut!

8) When Lorde was on stage at Lollapalooza, a sudden storm interrupted her set. The music festival was evacuated and her performance was cancelled. Can you think of a time when the weather had a major impact on your plans? Between Christmas and New Year's, my friend Joanna and I just couldn't get it together to
celebrate and, indirectly, it was because of the severe cold. She was just getting over a chest cold and inhaling the frigid air hurt.


9) Random question: Please complete this sentence -- Before I leave the house, I always __________________________.    
I always make absolutely sure I have my keys. I'm more than a little obsessive about it.




  1. Love it, the pizza delivery man! How funny! And, how thoughtless of your co-worker not to be a little more enduring at such a time. Oh, well, as they say, friends accept warts and all. Good questions and enjoyable post!

  2. Love the cocooning habit. I’m dealing with things that way,too. Read about your cousin Rose. It is a comfort to her, I’m sure, to have a close person in her family who loves her like you do.
    #9: oh yes. Keys! I’ve been locked out once and that was enough.

  3. Your coworker reminds me of someone I know who is in her own little world of tunnel vision. That is a hard friendship to remain vested in.

  4. I, too, am a key checker (and re-checker).

  5. Oh, I so identify with your #1. my #1 was the same. I was always there for her, she was rarely there for me.

  6. I should have mentioned my watch. I never leave without my watch. Actually it's the second thing I put on, following my glasses. I'm lost without it.

  7. Something happened at the end of my comment and I don't know if it was saved or not. I hope it was.