Friday, August 22, 2025

Saturday 9

Saturday 9: We Belong Together (2005)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

This month we're going to recall Summer Songs. These will all be records that topped the charts during August.

1) Number 1 on the charts in August 20 years ago, "We Belong Together" is about the end of this romantic relationship. Mariah sings that now she won't have anyone to talk to on the phone until the sun comes up. That was then. Today many people prefer to text than to talk on the phone. Are you one of those people? No! Of course, texts are fine for, "I'm on my way ..." or "Running late." But for everything else, I'd much rather have a conversation, where I can hear your voice and ask you for clarification. Fewer misunderstandings and greater connection with phone calls. Failing that, I'd prefer a nice, long email that truly expresses how you feel. 

2) The video for this song features an elaborate wedding. Tell us about the last wedding you attended. My friend Kathleen's daughter got married almost a year ago. I held her as a baby, so it was rather emotional for me to see her as a beautiful bride. It really is a gift to watch someone grow up before your eyes.

3) Mariah believes she inherited her musical gifts from her mom, who was an opera singer and vocal coach. When things were hectic in their household, Mariah recalls that music helped bring her and her mom closer together. Share a happy childhood memory featuring you and one of your parents. I realize now how much effort my mom put into preserving Santa Claus for us. Santa's gifts came in special wrapping paper. The tags were written in a different ink and an unfamiliar handwriting (her left hand). Things like that. It was really sweet, how seriously she took it and how important maintaining that magic was to her.

4) After graduating from high school in Long Island, Mariah Carey went to Manhattan in search of stardom. While waiting for her big break, she enrolled in beauty school and waited tables. Both stylists and servers receive gratuities for their services. Do you consider yourself a good tipper? I try.

5) The Fresh Air Fund operates six camps in the New York area to provide kids with a chance to learn and explore outdoors. They named Camp Mariah in Ms. Carey's honor to thank her for her support. Here's your chance to toot your own horn. Tell us about an honor you received. (Anything from a major award to a handmade drawing that says "World's Best Mom" counts. We want to hear about it.) Back in the 1990s I won a Clio. I used to be very proud of it, because it's advertising's most prestigious award. With time, I stopped displaying it in my office and never mentioned it because advertising is such an ageist industry. Eventually I actually became ashamed of it because I won it before some of my coworkers were born. I thought the year it was bestowed on me branded me as a dinosaur. Now that the advertising chapter of my life is over, I realize that was kind of sad. My work won national recognition. I wish I had enjoyed it more.

6) Mariah has mentioned she enjoys pizza and red wine. Will you be enjoying either pizza or red wine this weekend? Had pizza today (Friday) so I doubt I'll repeat. Unfortunately, wine gives me migraines, so that's a very hard no.

Let's look at the summer of 2005.

7) The biggest news story that summer was Hurricane Katrina. This deadly and destructive storm killed over 1,000 people and did more than $100 billion in damage. Have you ever endured a natural disaster (such as hurricane, flood, landslide, tornado, blizzard, wildfire)? When I was 9, we had what Chicagoans still refer to as The Big Snow. More than 20" fell in just a few hours. It wasn't just the snow total – which was prodigious – it was the speed with which Mother Nature dumped it on us. While the adults in my world were freaking out as all roads, schools and businesses closed, I had a glorious time. There were such drifts in our backyard that I was able to walk over to our neighbor's property. The snow had completely obliterated their 5' chain link fence. My mom warned me to never, never, never do that again. As the snow melted I could have been impaled on that fence. But when you're 9, you don't think of such things. You're just having adventures.

8) Popular that summer was Kingda Ka, the new roller coaster at Six Flags Great America in Jackson, NJ. At the time, it was the tallest and fastest roller coaster in the world. Have you been to any fairs or amusement parks this summer? No. It's been too hot!

9) Award-winning American figure skater Alysa Liu was born in August of 2005. NBC Sports and their Peacock network report that figure skating events get high ratings. What's your favorite sport to watch on TV? Go, Cubs, Go!


 

 

August Happiness Challenge – Day 22

My 2025 Happiness Icon

Today's happiness: My Chief Global Strategist. I had my regularly scheduled check in with my "wealth manager."* It was short (30 minutes) and straightforward, as everything is going as expected – at least as well as we can anticipate anything in Trump's chaotic world. Who knows what he'll do to that might rock the markets, just to distract conversation from The Big Beautiful Bill and, of course, Epstein? So, while I was happy to hear where my retirement funds are invested (tech, energy, financial services), I was eager to ask how these decisions are made.
 
Seems that my local guy has two weekly calls. The first is with his supervisor, right here in Chicagoland, who oversees the portfolios like mine. The second is a Zoom call with the bank's Chief Global Strategist. He is legitimately one of nation's premier investment strategists. I saw him on CNBC not that long ago, weighing in Jay Powell's decision to keep interest rates where they are. 
 
Look at me, having a top flight financial team! 
 
I am so glad I got professional help managing my portfolio. Nobody is expert at everything, and I admit I don't know much about investing. I worry so much less now, and less worry makes me happy. 

Happy August Happiness Challenge!
 
Each day in August you are to post about something that makes *you* happy. Pretty simple. And, it doesn't even have to be every day if you don't want it to be. It's a great way to remind ourselves that there are positive things going on in our lives, our communities, and the world.

 *That still cracks me up. If I were a wealthy woman, would I be working at a card shop for $16/hour?

 

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