Saturday 9: Michelle (1965)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
1) In this song, Paul McCartney sings to Michelle in French, "Sont des mots qui vont très bien ensemble." Can you say anything else in French? The usual: bonjour, au revoir, merci, oui, non. I wish I had a greater facility with foreign languages, but I don't.
2) Paul admits he that, as a teenager, he'd perform the first few bars at parties to impress girls. It was John Lennon who encouraged him to "turn it into a proper song." Tell us about a time you were glad you took advice from a friend or coworker. "Detach with love." My friend, Patrick, who is also friends with Henry and Reg, has wisely counseled me to not allow myself to get tied up in so many knots over them. Since Henry's TBI, Henry's husband Reg has made so many consequential and unwise decisions and my heart has been broken every way possible. But Patrick is right: I cannot do anything about it except love them. It's hard, because my impulse is to dive in and fix things! But the only one who can change the path they are on is Reg, and no one is helped by me going all tearful and nuts.
3) A big Elvis fan, Paul is proud to own the bass that was played on the 1954 recording of "That's Alright, Mama." Tell us about one of your prized possessions. Since we're talking about the fabulous and influential Lads from Liverpool: I have a signed, numbered and framed print of Klaus Voorman's Anthology in my dining room.
4) John was also an Elvis fan and honored The King by naming one of his cats Elvis. Do you share your home with any pets? If so, let us know their names. My little gray and white girlcat is Constance MacKenzie (from Peyton Place) and my massive tuxedo cat, right beside me as I answer these, is Roy Hobbs (from The Natural).
5) John was a heavy smoker who often attempted to quit. He tried hypnosis but that didn't work. Have you ever been hypnotized? Nope
6) George Harrison fell in love with Hawaii and bought a 63-acre estate. If you could take off tomorrow for a vacation to any of our 50 states, which one would you choose? Hawaii has naturally been on mind because of the Maui wildfires. I would love to go there and help in a meaningful way. But, if I was off on a vacation, I think I'd head to California to visit my oldest friend.
6) While Ringo Starr quit signing autographs for fans in 2008, he will donate autographed memorabilia to charity for auction. Have you ever bid on an item at auction? Did you win? I used to bid on eBay auctions. Now eBay more often offers "Buy It Now" at a set price.
7) As a young boy, Ringo had a severe case of appendicitis and his appendix was removed. Do you still have your appendix? Yes, though I learned in researching this stuff that nearly 10% of adult Americans don't.
8) In 1965 -- before Advil and Tylenol and Aleve -- Americans took aspirin to relieve pain. If we peered into your medicine chest, would we find aspirin? None in my medicine chest. I keep my meds in the kitchen because so many of them go down better with milk. And no, there's no aspirin there.
9) Random question: You're at dinner with a married couple who begins to argue. Would you intercede and try to make peace? Or would you just sit back and mind your own business? Does their argument in any way involve me or something I said? If it did and I could clarify, or help shut it down, I would. Otherwise I would cringingly mind my own business and hope it ended soon.
9) Random question: You're at dinner with a married couple who begins to argue. Would you intercede and try to make peace? Or would you just sit back and mind your own business? Does their argument in any way involve me or something I said? If it did and I could clarify, or help shut it down, I would. Otherwise I would cringingly mind my own business and hope it ended soon.
That's good advice from Patrick, though hard to follow, I know. I am always chanting to myself "Not my circus, not my monkeys." That artwork is still the coolest thing!
ReplyDeleteHmmm … two cats, one a tuxedo. Yeah, we’ve got that in common.
ReplyDeleteHawIi and California. That’s what I answered, too.
GMTA
#1 Same here, I don’t have an ear for foreign languages.
ReplyDelete#4 Cute names for your cats.
#9 That is a dicey situation, now a days you never know what is going to happen.
Patrick's advice resonates with me, too.
ReplyDeletePatrick gives good advice. Everyone should have a small aspirin bottle around; in the event of a heart attack, taking an aspirin could be the thing that keeps you going until help arrives. I can't take them because of my ulcers, but I have them on hand just for that reason.
ReplyDeleteWhen my gallbladder went out and they removed it in 2013, the CT scan showed I still had my appendix. I'd been told by the doctors doing my hysterectomy (when I was 29) that they were going to remove it, but when I obtained my records of the 1992 surgery in 2014, I learned there was so much scar tissue from endometriosis wrapped around it that they left it alone. It is this scar tissue that has decimated my abdominal muscles, and there's nothing they can do about it.
ReplyDelete"cringingly" is a good word!
ReplyDeleteI think that is the best way to handle an argument between a couple you are out to dinner with. And I join the chorus of 9ers who advise to just follow Patrick's advice in the friends' quarrels. About gallbladders and surgery... when mine went south in my early 70's, the doctor teased me with a description of how the whole op would be done through the belly button to save my Bikini line. We both laughed.
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