I met my niece for lunch at Olive Garden, my mother/her grandmother's favorite restaurant. It was the first time either of us had been back since she passed in Autumn, 2012. We agreed it was a nice way to think of her this Easter.
She told me about her impending breakup with her boyfriend. They're still living together, but it's platonic and only until she can get her own place.
As her college years grind to an end, she told me about her career aspirations. I'm jealous of her optimism and ambition. She isn't sure if she wants to stay in Michigan -- which she thinks is so beautiful with its lakes and beaches -- or come back here because it's home. And because there are so many more professional opportunities here.
She told me that she just discovered Friends on Netflix and is totally into it. Her favorite is Chandler. I think this is great.
I love her so much and really enjoyed the one-on-one time with her.
These are the thoughts and observations of me — a woman of a certain age. (Oh, my, God, I'm 65!) I'm single. I'm successful enough (independent, self supporting). I live just outside Chicago, the best city in the world. I'm an aunt and a friend. I feel that voices like mine are rather underrepresented online or in print. So here I am. If my musings resonate with you, please visit my blog again sometime.
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This made me smile from the inside.
ReplyDeletehope she comes back home, i know you would love her close to you!
ReplyDeletexoxoxo
Sounds like a lovely lunch. I hope whatever decision she makes will keep her happy and enthusiastic.
ReplyDeletePS-Chandler's my favorite, too. :)