When my niece was almost 6, she was obsessed with the animated Anastasia.
She had a dream where she walked into an Anastasia store that only sold Anastasia stuff. As her dream went, she
could purchase everything Anastasia for $100, and she had exactly $100
in her purse.
I went on eBay and purchased Anastasia memorabilia from
all over the world (my favorite: plastic Anasastia medallions that had
been packaged in cereal boxes in Ireland). I spread them out all over my
apartment and put a sign on the front door: Anastasia Store --
Everything $100. The look on her face when she came in the door, the way
she clasped her hands together under her chin and looked around the
room in wonderment at the Anastasia dolls and books and puzzles and
pillowcase, etc. ... I'll never forget it. How often in life do you get
to make someone's dream come true?
Now she's almost 20 and has just moved into her first place with her boyfriend. It's a one BR cottage. He is happy because, even though it is small and old and has crappy floors, it's one of the few stand-alone rentals they could afford. She is happy because it has a fireplace and she thinks it's the Taj Mahal.
I am happy that she is enjoying her college life so much. She is getting great grades, and has made friends and has fallen in love. Hooray for her.
But you have to forgive me if sometimes I miss the little girl who laced her fingers together under her chin when she was (so easily) delighted.
These are the thoughts and observations of me — a woman of a certain age. (Oh, my, God, I'm 65!) I'm single. I'm successful enough (independent, self supporting). I live just outside Chicago, the best city in the world. I'm an aunt and a friend. I feel that voices like mine are rather underrepresented online or in print. So here I am. If my musings resonate with you, please visit my blog again sometime.
I love being that kind of aunt!
ReplyDeleteHooray for her and what an awesome auntie you are. I love that wonderment in children and miss it too with mine.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lucky girl to have such a loving and caring auntie. You rock!
ReplyDeleteWhat an awesome gift! It's those dreams-come-true moments that gave her the optimism to strike out on her own, and see a 1 bedroom cottage as the Taj Mahal.
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