Wednesday, January 08, 2025

Thursday Thirteen #393

The way we were.
Maybe it's a sign of my advancing age, but 1925 doesn't sound that long ago to me. It surprises me to realize it's been 100 years.

So I've tooled around the internet to find what the average American household was like in 1925.

1. We read the newspaper. The daily paper was the chief source of information and entertainment. Papers were highly competitive and often published morning and afternoon editions. Chicago was known for the American, Daily News, Evening Post, Journal, and Tribune. There were also about a dozen foreign language papers published regularly for the immigrant community.

2. We listened to the radio ... when we could. Only half of American homes had electricity in 1925, so fewer than that had radios. Neighbors used to congregate at the homes of friends who had radios to listen to popular shows and sporting events.

3. Magazines were glossy and influential. Women turned to Vogue, Cosmopolitan and Good Housekeeping for fashions and domestic trends.

4. We wore tap pants. They were the best-selling lingerie item of the year. They were tight around your waist but loose around the hips and thighs and were often trimmed in lace at the hem to pretty them up a bit. They were considered more comfortable than slips and practical under any length skirt; important because hemlines were going up in the 20s.

5. We went to the movies every week. Many went more than once a week, what with Family Nights and Ladies Nights at the theater. It's not only that movies were affordable, exciting and entertaining. Movies were popular because theaters were the only place where air conditioning was commonplace.

6. Ice was delivered weekly. During the 1920s ice boxes were still the norm in American kitchens.

7. You cooked with coal or wood. Gas and electric stoves were available but far from common in 1925.

8. There was a cake safe on your counter. It was made of metal or glass, had a tight fitting lid, and protected your baked goods from dust and bugs.

9. But there was no storage under your sink. Sinks were mounted to the wall and usually stood on two or four legs. The area under the sink was left open to help prevent mildew.

10. Home phones were on the rise. While they certainly weren't standard issue yet, more homes had access to phones because major companies like Western Electric and Bell Telephone were investing in infrastructure.

11. Phone booths were everywhere. It was commonplace to find a booth in your local restaurant, drugstore and department store. While many homes didn't have phones in 1925, most businesses did, and you could go to a nearby phone booth to contact your doctor, grocery store or dairy. Which leads me to ...

12. Horse-drawn carts were still commonplace. Like ice (#6), milk and butter deliveries to your door were a regular occurrence, and it would be another decade before the milk and ice man began to use motor vehicles.

13. We talked a lot about cars. Soldiers returning from WWI aspired to buy cars, and car manufacturers became major employers. Still, not every home had a car yet. Roads had not caught up to the public's desire, and many prospective drivers were skeptical about a car with thin, wooden wheels navigating over mud and gravel. (However, by 1930 this would change radically.



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Tuesday, January 07, 2025

WWW.WEDNESDAY

 

 


WWW. WEDNESDAY asks three questions to prompt you to speak bookishly. To participate, and to see how other book lovers responded, click here

PS I no longer participate in WWW.WEDNESDAY via that link because her blog won't accept Blogger comments. I mention this only to save you the frustration I experienced trying to link up.

1. What are you currently reading? Trial by Ambush by Marcia Clark. This is the story of Barbara Graham, one of the first women to die in California's gas chamber. It intrigued me that Marcia Clark -- yes, the Marcia Clark of OJ Simpson fame -- chose this case to write about. I wanted to hear what a prosecutor thought of it.


Barbara Graham's case was known to me because of I Want to Live!, the Oscar-winning 1958 movie. The film depicts Barbara as an innocent but non-conformist party girl who was convicted and executed by the patriarchy. The truth is turning out to be more complicated but just as sad, unfair and ugly. While I am no longer convinced of her innocence -- I suspect she was there when the robbery was committed -- I still don't believe she committed the murder. I feel bad for the jurors, who might have chosen a different fate for her if they knew the facts.

 

My first book of 2025 introduces me to Marcia Clark, the author. This book is well constructed and written in an interesting voice. I will look for her fiction at my library.

 
2. What did you recently finish reading?
A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens was my last book of the year. What a delight!


3. What will you read next? I don't know.


 




Saturday, January 04, 2025

Saturday 9

Saturday 9: Something New (2017)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.

Welcome to the first Saturday 9 of 2025.
 
 

1) We're beginning the year with a song about new beginnings. What is something new you'd like to try in 2025? I'm not approaching it that way. Instead, I've given myself a goal this year. I'm going to winnow through my books and donate many of them.

2) The lyrics recall what was said "in the mist of the midnight hour." Where were you when the new year dawned? I was asleep. Don't judge me. I had a cold.
 
3) The Axwell of Axwell and Ingrosso is Axel Hedfors. He began as a drummer and moved on to experimenting musically on the computer, eventually mastering music sequencer software. Do you consider yourself more a technophile like Axwell, who loves technology and digital devices, or more a technophobe, anxious about learning new programs? Total phobe.

4) His musical partner is Sebastian Ingrosso. Sebastian became interested in dance music when he accompanied his father, a choreographer, to the studio. When you were young, did you ever go to work with either of your parents? Not in a "take your daughter to work" kinda way. But we stopped by my dad's work as a family on occasion.

5) Axwell & Ingrosso gave their premiere performance at the 2014 Governors Ball Music Festival in New York City and their last concert at the 2017 Ultra Music Fest in Miami. Looking back on 2024, did you attend any outdoor music or theater performances? Nope.

6) In 2017, when "Something New" was released, we lost the TV star who could "turn the world on with her smile." Without looking it up, do you know who that is? She could take a nothing day and suddenly make it all seem worthwhile.


7) Also in 2017, Today Show anchor Hoda Kotb announced she had adopted her first child. Do you know anyone who is adding to their family in 2025? Maybe. My niece and her hubs have been approved for adoption and are now waiting for their baby.

8) Have you made any New Year's resolutions for 2025? No.
 
9) What was the first thing to make you laugh in 2025? Probably my girlcat. She's very sweet but silly.



 

Wednesday, January 01, 2025

Thursday Thirteen #392

 

Everything old is new again. According to Parents, names that were popular 100 years ago are making a resurgence. Here are 13 names from the 1920s that are expected to trend in the 2020s.

1. Dorothy

2. Mary

3. Helen

4. Margaret

5. Ruth

6. Mildred

7. Charles

8. George

9. Edward

10. Cecil

11. Harold

12. Raymond

13. Arthur

Are there any babies expected to enter your life in 2025? Any idea what they'll be named?

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Tuesday, December 31, 2024

WWW.WEDNESDAY


 


WWW. WEDNESDAY asks three questions to prompt you to speak bookishly. To participate, and to see how other book lovers responded, click here

PS I no longer participate in WWW.WEDNESDAY via that link because her blog won't accept Blogger comments. I mention this only to save you the frustration I experienced trying to link up.

1. What are you currently reading? A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens. Do I really need to provide a synopsis for this one? Surprisingly short, it's a masterpiece and I'm glad I'm finally reading it. Now, to go from the sublime to the ridiculous ...

 
2. What did you recently finish reading?
Wreck the Halls by Tessa Bailey. A  superstar band, Steel Birds, broke up suddenly and bitterly and left their legion of fans reeling. The duo's music is embraced by each subsequent generation and the Steel Birds legend continues to grow. The members -- Trina and Octavia -- steadfastly refuse to perform together ever again.

 

Trina and Octavia were both pregnant when they broke up and weren't speaking when Trina's daughter, Melody, and Octavia's son, Beat, were born. Still, the kids grew up together in a way, linked together by the paparazzi and on gossip sites. Beat was the charmed one, the one the camera loved, and he grew up to be one of People's Sexiest Men Alive. Melody's awkward teen years were chronicled cruelly, leaving her feeling awkward and never quite enough

 

Thirty years after the band's break-up, a producer tries to reunite Steel Birds at Rockefeller Center on Christmas Eve and offers Beat and Melody $1 million to bring their mothers together. Of course Melody and Beat are going to have a Christmas romance.

 

This book was silly. I'm not sorry I read it, because it got me thinking of second-generation celebrity and the onus it puts on people who never requested it. But it is not sexy, romantic, or Christmas-y. I do not recommend it. 


3. What will you read next? Trial by Ambush by Marcia Clark.


 



Friday, December 27, 2024

Saturday 9

 Saturday 9: Goodbye (1969)

Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.


This song was chosen because it's time to say goodbye to 2024.
Thanks for participating in Saturday 9 this year.

1) In this song, Mary Hopkin asks her lover not to let her sleep too late. Did you wake up this morning on your own, did someone wake you, or were you jangled awake by an alarm clock? I'm battling a bad cold and am letting myself sleep as much as my body wants to as I recover.

2) The lyrics reference "a lonely song." Can you name a song about loneliness? "Eleanor Rigby" by the Beatles. Paul asks, "All the lonely people, where do they all come from? All the lonely people, where do they all belong?"

3) "Goodbye" was written for Mary by Paul McCartney. He was the one who signed her to her first record contract and produced this and all her Apple Records, including her first big hit, "Those Were the Days." Looking back on 2024, who is someone who gave you a helping hand when you needed it? My former boss at the card shop, Ceecee, made me feel like she wanted me to succeed. Her support gave me confidence. She's a very good supervisor.

4) This video shows Mary performing on The Ed Sullivan Show while wearing a miniskirt. Minis were very popular in 1969. Did you embrace a fashion trend in 2024? If we expand this to makeup, yes. I began wearing light blue and violet eye shadow again, something I hadn't done since the 70s. But I like it.

5) Also in 1969, the Colts lost to the New York Jets in Super Bowl III. The game is famous because of all the hype leading up to it, including Joe Namath "guaranteeing" the underdog Jets would win. Do you have a special sports memory of 2024? In September, my favorite-most ball player returned to Wrigley Field for the first time since he was traded. It wasn't just the 41,000 fans in the park who celebrated him. There were signs all around town welcoming him home. I hope Anthony Rizzo realizes how much he is loved here.



6) What's the farthest from home you traveled in 2024? ORD to LAX is about 2,000 miles.

7) What was the biggest purchase that you made in 2024? I spent about (gulp) $4,000 on dental work this year.

8) What was your favorite book of 2024? Camera Girl is a biography of Jacqueline Bouvier, before she became Mrs. Kennedy or Mrs. Onassis. It concentrates on her life after high school and before marriage. It's about the choices women had (or didn't have) in the 1940s and 1950s and made me wish I knew more about my own mother's life after high school, before she left my grandparents' home for her husband's.
Read about it here

9) What are you looking forward to most in 2025? I'm going to Hollywood!


 


Sunday, December 22, 2024

In memory of Henry

Today should be my dear friend Henry's birthday. He loved Frida Kahlo and often tried to convince me to appreciate her, as well. He was never successful, but I miss our conversations.

I wish I could give this to him. As a little boy, he never got a birthday party. He wasn't bitter about this, saying, "With all her children, with my day so close to Christmas, Mother did not have time." I knew better than to criticize his mother, whom he loved more than anything, but internally I always cried "bullshit." He had two brothers, not 12. His mother had time. So I pledged to him I would always fuss over his birthday.

You can order it here.

Before his accident, he would thank me and we would hang it on his tree together. After his TBI, he would criticize it -- "Is this supposed to be Frida? Why can no one get her eyebrows right?" -- but he would still thank me.

Happy birthday, Henry. I miss you.



Friday, December 20, 2024

Saturday 9

SATURDAY 9: HAPPY HOLIDAYS

 From the archives

1. As you can see, when Sam Winters was a little girl, she loved giving her annual wish list to Santa. If you could ask Santa for anything at all, right now, what would it be? A contract for Anthony Rizzo.

2. Are you currently on the Naughty or Nice list? How did you get there? I am on the Nice List because every day I try to be kind and do good. Or, in Gone with the Wind parlance, be more Melly than Scarlett.

3. Are you traveling this Christmas? If so, are you going by car, plane or train? I am flying to Grand Rapids to see my niece's new home.

4. Did you ship any gifts to friends and family this year? If yes, which one traveled the farthest? My cousin Rose lives near Tampa, loves her coffee, and enjoyed her trip to Italy so I sent her a mug decorated by a map of Italy. This make-up bag went farther, winging its way to my oldest friend in So Cal. I slipped a $25 Target gift card inside. I chose Target because even though she has mobility issues and lives in a rather rural are, Target delivers anywhere and has stuff everyone needs. (Her medical issues and living situation make her difficult to buy for.)

 
5. Did you buy yourself a gift this year? Yes! I got a Black & Decker cordless stick vac. It's a little noisier than I'd like -- I worry about my downstairs neighbor -- but the suction is good and it's so convenient.

6. Which do you prefer: candy canes or gingerbread? Gingerbread.

7. Close your eyes and tell us the first carol that comes to mind. Hark! The Herald Angels Sing.

8. What's your favorite winter beverage? This weekend I'm doing a little socializing and have committed to trying my first-ever hot toddy. Maybe it will become my favorite winter beverage.

9. Share a memory from last Christmas. Last year was the 40th anniversary of the Christmas singalong with Santa preceding It's a Wonderful Life at Chicago's Music Box Theater. I've attended before, but it was especially sweet to be part of the anniversary celebration. I'm using my commemorative mug right now.





Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Thursday Thirteen #391

For Her. From 1974. I got my start as a writer for the Sears Catalog in 1981, but I began flipping through it as a little girl. I fantasized about what I wanted to wear, how I wanted my future home to look, and at Christmastime, what I wanted to find under the tree.

So for this week's TT, I wanted to see how we were celebrating Christmas fifty years ago and I looked to the Sears Wish Book. I was happy to see the headline written by one of my predecessors, "Gifts for Gals to Give or Get." Here's what I found on those pages:

1. "8 famous fragrances on an elegant boudoir tray." Tiny bottles (about .5 oz.) of Courant, Tigress, Ambush, Emeraude, Heaven Scent, Maja, Tweed and Chantilly a "dainty" filigreed tray. $8.98.

2. Nail care kit. Five shades of nail polish, four emery boards, a cuticle pusher and a pack of tissues in a zipper case with a tab handle. "Remove the contents and you have a handy little tote-purse." $4.98.

3. Bird cage music box. A yellow bird behind gold metal bars "dances to the tune of 'We've Only Just Begun.'" $7.98.

4. Roomy sewing basket. Brown wood basket with "attractive red bandana print cotton trim and lining." 9 in. tall, 7 in. high. $4.98.

5. Profile charms. Ready to hang on a bracelet (not included), choose from a boy's or girl's profile. First initial and birthdate engraved at no extra cost. $3.99.

6. Double-link charm bracelet. "Beautifully crafted of rhodium-plated sterling silver ... individually gift-boxed." 7.5 in. long. $5.99.

7. Ivory pendant. "Deeply petaled rose shape" on an 18 in. chain. Gift boxed. $5.99.

8. Treasure chest jewelry box. "Covered with charming multi-colored birds and flowers." Lined with pink rayon. $6.99.

9. Black and gold bead necklace. "Just the right accessory." 26 in. long. $7.00.

10. Beret and scarf set. The beret "sports a jaunty pom-pom" and the 6-ft. long scarf has a "dashing" knotted trim. In 6 colors. $7.00.

11. Knit gloves with vinyl palm and back. 2-button trim. Remember, "Gloves make great gifts." $3.97

12. Three speed hand mixer. Detachable chrome steel beaters are easy to clean. $6.99.

13. Chess set with a folding board. "Chess is a great game for thinkers." $8.95.

PLEASE NOTE: All of these gifts came in at under $10. Adjusted for inflation, a gift that cost $10 in 1974 would be about $60.75 today.

Can you see your earlier self giving or getting any of these 1974 Christmas gifts?

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Grateful that I can

My Christmas shopping is done, and in this post I'm focusing on gifts for people I don't even know.

Harriet. She's 9 years old and either lives in, or attends daycare at, the local children's home. The kids there share their Christmas wishes, which are printed on ornaments hung on the tree at our neighborhood Whole Foods. I chose to deliver on Harriet's wish because while other little girls longed for Barbie, she asked for STEM. Now I was a Barbie girl and would never throw shade, but I admire Harriet for marching to her own drummer. So I got her this rock kit and a $10 Target gift card (because it was noted she also needs a new sweater).


Anthony Rizzo Family Foundation. I read the story of a mom with a couple kids, one of whom was battling cancer. She explained that with between jobs and medical appointments, she and her husband were just spread too thin to provide a Merry Christmas for her family, and she was very grateful when my favorite ballplayer and his charity team stepped in and took over. Already wrapped gifts showed up for both her sick child and his sibling. Another parent reported that, even though they didn't have time to decorate their home, the Rizzo foundation contracted a local hardware store and outdoor lights were purchased and hung, enabling Santa to find their house on Christmas Eve. So when I saw their toy drive and this Nerf football was listed, it seemed quite literally like the least I could do to help. I am grateful that my favorite ballplayer has opened my eyes to the fact that when a child is battling cancer, his brothers and sisters are effected, too. If you're looking for a charity to support, you could do far worse than this one


Toys for Tots. Have you noticed that for the last few years, this venerable organization has been asking for books as well? I think that's awesome, and so I dropped a pair of books into the collection box at my local Walgreen's. (This is the only one I remember; the other one had stickers in the back.)

JFK said "God's work must be our own." That seems especially important this time of year. Giving is the best way to honor the spirit of the season, and I'm grateful I can do it.



That's my girl

I love how elegantly, yet unambiguously, JBKO let her guests know that they were both welcome in her home and expected to leave at 8:00 PM. Unless you were one of the lucky few invited in her distinctive hand to stay for supper.

This is likely from the early 1980s. How I would have loved to have celebrated Christmas at 1040! If meeting my idol left me tongue-tied, I'm sure I'd have someone fascinating to talk to. At that point, Jackie was working at Doubleday and enjoyed surrounding herself with authors. She shared her Fifth Avenue apartment with Maurice Tempelsman. In those days, his philanthropic interests were far-reaching, touching upon everything from AIDS research to oceanography. Just imagine the guest list!

I'd leave at 8:00. I couldn't bear it if at supper I dribbled some of Marta's famous raspberry sauce down my expensive new blouse. (And I would, you know.)




WWW.WEDNESDAY

 

 


WWW. WEDNESDAY asks three questions to prompt you to speak bookishly. To participate, and to see how other book lovers responded, click here

PS I no longer participate in WWW.WEDNESDAY via that link because her blog won't accept Blogger comments. I mention this only to save you the frustration I experienced trying to link up.

1. What are you currently reading? Wreck the Halls by Tessa Bailey. A lightweight Christmas romance that appeals to the Beatles fangirl in me. It's about a superstar band, Steel Birds, who broke up suddenly and bitterly and left their legion of fans confused and heartbroken. The duo's music is embraced by each subsequent generation and the Steel Birds legend continues to grow. The members -- Trina and Octavia -- steadfastly refuse to perform together, or even speak to one another, ever again.


Thirty years after the band's break-up, a producer tries to reunite Steel Birds at Rockefeller Center on Christmas Eve. Why does she think she will succeed where everyone else has failed? She has enlisted Trina's now 30-year old daughter, Melody, and Octavia's son, Beat, also 30, to try to persuade their famous mothers and to livestream the kids' efforts as a reality show. Of course Melody and Beat are going to have a Christmas romance.


Julian and Sean Lennon. Heather, Mary, Stella, James and Beatrice McCartney. Dhani Harrison. Zak, Jason and Lee Starkey. Yes, I can name the Beatles' progeny without looking it up. Julian and Heather never hooked up, but if they had, the Beatles fanverse would have gone mad.

 
2. What did you recently finish reading? 
Christmas Presents by Lisa Unger. A very good thriller. Taut and scary. Unger uses the small-town Christmas setting to reinforce that evil can exist anywhere.


When Maddie was still in high school, she endured an attack that left her a scar on her cheek and a deeper one on her soul. After a high-profile trial, which rocked her little hometown, the perpetrator was sentenced and Maddie tried to get on her with her life. She runs an independent bookstore and takes care of her dad, who recently suffered a stroke. She is doing the best she can, but her recovery is fragile.


And it's threatened when a famous podcaster enters her shop. He believes the similar unsolved crimes against other young girls in the area means her attacker didn't act alone, or perhaps there's a copycat out there, so he's reopening the case. 


Every few pages I said to myself, "He did it ... no, he did it! ... no, he did it ..." I wasn't always wrong. One of my guesses did turn out to be correct. But that's only because I suspected just about every male in the book.


3. What will you read next? I don't know.


 


A break from all the ho-ho-ho

Winter hasn't even really kicked in yet and I'm looking forward to spring! Got my hotel room -- I'm staying at the Loews, which is rather high end but right there at the center of everything, so I'll feel safe even after the midnight screenings -- and now I have my pass. 


After the first of year I'll start looking at airfare. Right now ORD-LAX is $561 roundtrip. Frankly that's more than I want to spend. I'm about 6,500 miles short of flying free (darn!). I hate having to fret about the cost of things, but I'm an old lady on a fixed income and that's my new reality. In years gone by, I took at least two vacations a year -- Key West and then some other getaway -- but this will be my only trip in 2025.* 

Facebook is abuzz with my fellow old movie fanatics. We're excited about the films we'll see, and about seeing one another again. 

Baseball and TCMFF! April will deliver two of my favorite things.



*If I do Grand Rapids again next year, I think I'd prefer Amtrak, which would be cheaper than flying. 


Saturday, December 14, 2024

Saturday 9

Saturday 9: I Wouldn't Trade Christmas (1968)


Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
  
1) In addition to Christmas, this song name-checks many major holidays, including Mother's and Father's Day, Thanksgiving, Halloween and Valentine's Day. Which holiday is your favorite? I don't know how to answer this because the 2024 holidays are different from any other. I used to spend Thanksgiving with John and Christmas with Henry. John died in April and Henry in June. Thanksgiving this year was OK, but very different. We'll see how Christmas unfolds.
 
2) The Sinatra family posed in all-white for this album cover in August 1968. Are there any pictures of you and your siblings in matching outfits? Yes. My older sister and I are 19 months apart, one year apart in school. My mom enjoyed dressing us the same, especially for special occasions. I hated it.

3) Nancy is the oldest of the Sinatra children. She's also the one who performed most often on TV and film with her famous father. She played his daughter (of course!) in a movie and appeared in two of his TV specials while he appeared in one of hers. In 1967, she and Frank scored a #1 single with a duet of "Somethin' Stupid." Have you ever worked with a family member or spouse? Nope.
 
4) Frank, Jr., was the middle child and only son. A dedicated musician, he labored in his father's long shadow and joked that he would have had an easier time if he'd chosen real estate instead of music. Tell us about your path not taken. (Examples: A career you wish you'd pursued but didn't; a person you could have married but didn't; a city you almost moved to, but changed your mind.) I once thought I'd enjoy being a court reporter. I'm fascinated by court proceedings. I'm proficient at a keyboard. It seemed like a good fit. But I was eager to move out of my parents' house and didn't want to spend the two years required to get an associate's degree. Instead I took the conventional secretarial route. I ended up at Sears, and from there I was promoted to a catalog copywriter and my advertising career was born. So I guess it all worked out for the best.
 
5) Unlike her father and siblings, Tina Sinatra never wanted to be a singer. She found success as a theatrical agent and, at her father's request, became involved with his business affairs. Today she helps manage the rights to Frank Sinatra's movies and music. Do you have a good head for business? Yes. Or, to be more precise, I have a good head for marketing/strategy. I don't understand investing or the stock market.

6) Nancy and Frank, Jr., were born in Jersey City. By the time Tina was born, the family had relocated to Los Angeles. Did your family move around a lot when you were young? Nope.

And now, in the spirit of the season ...
 
7) Do you consider snow globes a holiday decoration, or do think they should be displayed all year around? I file this under, "Do What You Want."

8) Which of Dickens' Christmas ghosts would you most enjoy spending time with: past, present or future? Past. I look back on my Key West Christmases so fondly now. It was always such a kick to swim in the pool, listening to Christmas tunes, before church on Christmas Eve. And I'd like to walk the beach on Christmas Day with Henry again.

9) Have you crafted, cooked, or baked any gifts this holiday season? Nope.