Sunday Stealing

The 2x4 Meme

TWO foods you can't stand

1. Sushi

2. Anything spicy

FOUR foods you love

1. Pizza (deep dish, thin crust – I'm easy)

2. Barbecue (beef, chicken or pork – I'm easy)

3. Crab Rangoon

4. Potatoes (baked, fried, mashed – I'm easy)

TWO places you never want to see again 

1. The little lake in Wisconsin my family visited every year when I was kid. The three hour drive with my dad was always tense and unpleasant. Once we got up there, I was bored and lonely. Reliving those vacations gives me PTSD. 

2. I don't have another one

FOUR places you'd like to revisit

1. New York City

2. Memphis

3. Hot Springs, AR

4. Hollywood, for the TCM Classic Film Festival (and I plan to return in 2026)

TWO musical artists who make you want to change the station 

1. Barry Manilow

2. Madonna

FOUR musical artists you love to listen to

1. The Beatles

2. Bruce Springsteen

3. Barbra Streisand

4. Elvis

TWO moments you'd like to erase

1. Seeing Anthony Rizzo injured in a collision at first base with Fernando Tatis. He got a concussion and, though we didn't know it at the time, it brought an early end to his career. He is forever my captain and he deserved better, from baseball and from life.

2. January 6, 2021. Everyone involved in that shameful day at the Capitol and the pardons that followed should be ashamed of himself. (Though shame is in short supply in this administration.)

FOUR moments you'd like to relive

1. The day back in 2004 when I realized I was in love. I was on my way home and I couldn't wait to call him and thank him for reminding me to bring my umbrella. I thought, "Wow, just connecting with him over the smallest thing fills me with such anticipation – I guess I'm in love."

2. The first time my cat Roy Hobbs got into bed with me to snuggle. He'd been abused and it took him a little while to trust humans again.

3. Seeing Sir Paul from my awesome seat on Wrigley Field. When I got my fantabulous ticket, I was thrilled that I would be that close to my favorite Beatle. When I got to the park and was ushered onto the field, it washed over me that I wasn't far from where the great Greg Maddux actually pitched and it was almost too much happiness.

4. Speaking of the Cubs ... Anthony Rizzo making the final out of the 2016 World Series. I lived to see something my grandparents, my dad, and my uncle missed: The Cubs as World Series champions. At this moment I felt very close to all my clan of Cub fans who had gone before.

  

 

Nevertheless I'm happy

During the TCM Classic Film Festival, we wear our passes on lanyards around our necks. It's become custom to add pins of our favorite movies and stars to the lanyard. In April, while Will from my movie group and I were waiting in line for another movie, we compared notes about our movie going the day before, I rather enthusiastically described Suddenly, Last Summer, starring Elizabeth Taylor and directed by Joseph Mankiewicz. One of the people in line near us, a stranger, enjoyed my retelling so much she leaned across the rope to give me another pin for my lanyard: Elizabeth as Cleopatra. 1963's Cleopatra was also directed by Mankiewicz. I was happy to get the pin, Will was amused that I had entertained our fellow movie fans.

Fast forward from April to August. Cleopatra is having a moment. TCM has made it the subject of this season's The Plot Thickens podcast and tonight, Chicago's Music Box Theater just showed all 245 epic minutes on the big screen.

I was in the stylist's chair this morning when Will reached out to me, inviting me to go with him tonight. His initial invitation consisted of this photo. Every movie fan, every baby boomer, knows it:

 

I declined his invite because I woke up this morning with a disrupted gut. I was worried about making it through a 4 hour movie and then dinner and a train ride home, and stress only makes the situation worse. Yet I feel good about the whole thing. Will fondly remembered that moment in line at the film festival and wants to hang with me. That's important to me. 

I know "diversity" is suddenly a dirty word, but I like it in my life. While I hang with lots of classic movie fans, they're all women. Will is a closeted gay Republican.* He's also a regular church goer.† I truly don't have anyone else like him in my life. Knowing him makes me stronger and makes life better.

I hope he'll continue to reach out to socialize. I want all kinds of people, all kinds of energy in my life.

  

 *Here in Cook County, Republican raises more eyebrows than gay.

†We've talked religion on occasion but steer clear of politics. 

August Happiness Challenge – Day 16

 

My 2025 Happiness Icon

Today's happiness: I sang the song. After every Cubs home win, fans are encouraged to "sing the song."  Unfortunately, since the All Star Break, we haven't been given the opportunity to raise our voices. Going into today's game, my guys have lost 6 of the last 9 games. (Gulp!)

 

Today, my heroes finally reigned victorious! Connie Cat and I witnessed it from my sofa, and I'm grateful she didn't run away when I started to sing. 

  

Happy August Happiness Challenge!

 

Each day in August you are to post about something that makes *you* happy. Pretty simple. And, it doesn't even have to be every day if you don't want it to be. It's a great way to remind ourselves that there are positive things going on in our lives, our communities, and the world.

 

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