Earlier this month I whined and complained about financial straights that I have gotten myself into. I was undoubtedly more honest about it here than I have been with the people I come to face-to-face with in my real life. That, combined with the supportive responses from Kwiz, Snarkela, Vivian and Silver Neurotic helped me get a grip on my self made mess and start improving my situation.
So I have begun bringing my lunch to work and questioning every expense. Instead of just donating a couple of new books I have sold them on eBay, which won't buy me a house in the country but it does help me stay on budget. I have even (gasp!) cooked at home! And tomorrow, instead of renting the Oscar-nominated Winter's Bone so I can see it before the awards Sunday, I will attend the free showing at the local public library. If I find extra in my wallet, I do not look at it as "found money" to have fun with but instead do something useful with it -- like adding it to my CTA pass.
The result is that I have stayed on budget for each week and been able to add a little to my household "slush" fund (the money I turn to if a smaller unexpected expense turns up -- like a super-sized bill for snow removal at my mom's or a gift for a baby shower at the office). While using the money responsibly doesn't necessarily give me the quick high of a new purse, it does pay off in serenity over the long term.
Thank you, ladies, for the perspective and the inspiration!
Very well done!!!
ReplyDeleteso happy for you!! just rec'd my tax refund...and I quickly paid some bills...before i had the chance to do something stupid! you have encouraged me too....
ReplyDeleteGood for you! I'm trying to do the same thing - spend more thoughtfully (if at all), basically - but it sure can be hard.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that things are going a little better financially. It's definitely not a huge change, but every little bit of saved money helps.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! You're off to a great start.
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