These are the thoughts and observations of me — a woman of a certain age. (Oh, my, God, I'm 65!) I'm single. I'm successful enough (independent, self supporting). I live just outside Chicago, the best city in the world. I'm an aunt and a friend. I feel that voices like mine are rather underrepresented online or in print. So here I am. If my musings resonate with you, please visit my blog again sometime.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Sunday Stealing #16
Sunday Stealing: The Hardest Meme Ever
1. What is the bravest thing that you feel you've ever done physically? Four and a half years ago, I walked in on a rape in progress. It was after midnight in the stairwell of the train station. I sobered up very quickly, stood my ground, and very calmly dialed 911 on my cell. I was describing the perpetrator to police even as he ran away. I stayed with the victim as long as I could -- in addition to the injuries you'd expect, the rapist had dislocated her jaw and her face was swelling up. The police separated us, though, so that I wouldn't be compromised if I ever had to testify in court. It really never occurred to me that I could have been hurt until later, when the police were interviewing me.
2. What is the bravest thing that you feel you've ever done emotionally? Therapy. If it's to be a success, you have commit to it and be honest. About everything.
3. What one talent do you wish you had that you don't? I wish I could sing.
4. If you had that talent what would you be doing with it? Karaoke.
5. We all have our reasons for blogging but what would be your ultimate goal for your blog or as a blogger? Create an accurate online journal. I want to be able to read this in years to come and remember what this time of life was like.
6. What advice would you give a new blogger? Don't overanalyze. Just do it. WRITE.
7. Who are you three favorite blogs to visit (Yes, you can have ties and name more than three.) See the links at right.
8. You can trade lives with any one person for a month. Who would it be and why? A pet sitter. I have been wondering if that would be a good second career for me, after the writing thing comes to an end. Would I really enjoy it as much as I think I would?
9. There's a fire and your family is safe but you have the chance to save any one item from your house. What would it be and why? My cats -- unless I can get away with claiming them as family. Then I'd grab my purse.
10. You have the chance to go back in time and warn yourself before making a bad choice. What choice would it be and what would you tell yourself? Don't waste so much time on the man my oldest friend refers to as "the living piece of shit." I know that, wicked painful as that relationship was, it was necessary for me to go through. I just don't know that it was necessary for me to go through the same stuff again, and again and again. (I can be a slow learner.)
That woman was so lucky to have had you be her angel that night.
ReplyDeleteWow! You're a one tough gal! Salute to you!
ReplyDelete#1 blew me away. You should get a Medal of Bravery or something! I don't believe you were "in the right place at the right time".....you were certainly meant to be there. That's my not-so-humble opinion.
ReplyDeleteYou can still do Karaoke. It's for people who can't sing!
I don't need to read another answer to #1. That was SO brave. I knew I like you, but now you always have a huge amount of my respect. Thanks for sharing that!
ReplyDelete#1 is amazing, you are amazing!
ReplyDelete# 2 is so true.
Omg... That was a very... Valuable lesson you've got at #1 =X
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