tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post5769390401845828186..comments2024-03-28T22:58:27.320-05:00Comments on One Gal's Musings: Oh, I don't knowThe Gal Herselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02566779726191649848noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-46267253677940027192014-04-24T18:29:05.928-05:002014-04-24T18:29:05.928-05:00It's hurtful when an old friend doesn't tr...It's hurtful when an old friend doesn't trust you with the truth. Sure there may be good reasons, and it could explain everything away. And you're right not to press her on it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06524230831950917735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-27299287137072662862014-04-23T20:06:02.411-05:002014-04-23T20:06:02.411-05:00That is puzzling that she'd make up such a det...That is puzzling that she'd make up such a detailed lie, including a story about the ride home and everything. Maybe she was embarrassed about being alone and didn't want you to feel sorry for her or feel obligated to invite her? Or maybe she just wanted to spend the day alone, and didn't want to have to explain that to anyone? I don't know???Angel The Alienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16158672957404194956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-1461389767485840712014-04-23T16:37:09.588-05:002014-04-23T16:37:09.588-05:00How peculiar of her. You have such a great perspe...How peculiar of her. You have such a great perspective on your friend's woes.Kwizgiverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02030855903021576354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-30885242212988747752014-04-23T09:57:20.098-05:002014-04-23T09:57:20.098-05:00Shame and admitting you're truly alone is a ha...Shame and admitting you're truly alone is a hard one for all of us. If she told you about it, she'd have to face the feelings and that was maybe more than she could do now. And it's possible all that lies in her unconscious and she just wanted to hide.<br /><br />I had a friend lie to me about something similar many years ago and it hurt me terribly that she felt she couldn't tell me / didn't want to tell me. In fact, it was the beginning of the end of our relationship. <br /><br />You have such a big, loving heart that holds more compassion than hundred people put together. I know, deep in your soul, you understand that she can't face up to it now. But yes, on a human level, it does hurt.<br /><br />(HUG)Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010635183616220660noreply@blogger.com