tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post4376346557556837790..comments2024-03-28T22:58:27.320-05:00Comments on One Gal's Musings: A QuandryThe Gal Herselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02566779726191649848noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-45906980487047794922009-09-22T21:14:42.359-05:002009-09-22T21:14:42.359-05:00Your sister, her husband, and the two kids are ver...Your sister, her husband, and the two kids are very very lucky to have someone like you in their lives.Snowbirdnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-7069083971074887442009-09-21T14:52:15.148-05:002009-09-21T14:52:15.148-05:00I think you made the right decision, too.I think you made the right decision, too.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06524230831950917735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-42236264562657093322009-09-21T14:19:27.490-05:002009-09-21T14:19:27.490-05:00Very thoughtful.Very thoughtful.Kwizgiverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02030855903021576354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-19737573568016916122009-09-21T06:50:11.508-05:002009-09-21T06:50:11.508-05:00Yes, you've done exactly the right thing. You ...Yes, you've done exactly the right thing. You will know when you've done all you can and decide from there.<br /><br />My cousin was in a similar situation and I sent her money, cards for support and even went so far as to disguise where the money came from so she wouldn't feel bad. And she was the one who sent me the email that was, without question, the cruelest thing I've ever received. And you know what? I decided that it was time to stop my giving. Not as a punishment, but my higher self said that I had done what was in my heart to do and now it was time to let go. So I did.<br /><br />You'll know.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010635183616220660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-80218249004426285052009-09-20T17:09:03.867-05:002009-09-20T17:09:03.867-05:00I think you are on the right track with not handin...I think you are on the right track with not handing over money, rather helping them out in other ways such as the gift cards and the cat stuff. Just keep it up, if your sis doesn't appreciate it now...she will eventually.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com