tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post3001103688754112165..comments2024-03-28T13:23:30.718-05:00Comments on One Gal's Musings: "A former lady friend in Chitown I miss"The Gal Herselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02566779726191649848noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-10430416252472189692011-02-04T05:56:48.759-06:002011-02-04T05:56:48.759-06:00I think Jody nailed it hard with the "one per...I think Jody nailed it hard with the "one person who won't forgive him" - yeah, no. He doesn't get that now. <br /><br />(I know this pings you but it's really a reminder from the Uni of how far you are from where you were. Say thanks and keep moving. You did good.)<br /><br />Much love to you!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010635183616220660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-416862869268438982011-02-03T18:06:12.410-06:002011-02-03T18:06:12.410-06:00A weaker Gal would submit to him again. Be strong...A weaker Gal would submit to him again. Be strong and know you've got cyber-friends who love you and support you.Kwizgiverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02030855903021576354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-62011909230261907382011-02-03T17:14:59.569-06:002011-02-03T17:14:59.569-06:00I agree with Jamie. He doesn't miss you. But...I agree with Jamie. He doesn't miss you. But I don't agree with the next statement.<br /><br />I think he wants the one person in the world who WON'T forgive him, to do so.<br /><br />So...yeah, Jamie may be right. That's probably a form of control, too.Jodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03418253504761029445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-5957238269029314452011-02-03T08:59:05.624-06:002011-02-03T08:59:05.624-06:00The answer is simple. He doesn't actually &qu...The answer is simple. He doesn't actually "miss" you. He misses controlling you. There may have been a stagnant place in his marriage that he needed to fill and you popped up as the "one who got away". For the sake of your own mental health, keep it that way.Durward Discussionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15023629504094283860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-32573966025586733022011-02-03T08:13:45.394-06:002011-02-03T08:13:45.394-06:00I think he thinks if you forgive him, he can forgi...I think he thinks if you forgive him, he can forgive himself...what a creep!<br />Evil demons in this man...I am so thankful you are staying away from him.<br />You are a beautiful person don't let this creep use anymore of your brain space!!Vivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02475300367665076331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-12627740385204480732011-02-03T07:38:37.522-06:002011-02-03T07:38:37.522-06:00This guy sounds like a world class manipulator and...This guy sounds like a world class manipulator and that's why he keeps trying to contact you. He's also got a lot of pride, which explains why he just can't "let it go", doing so would force him to take responsibility for all the pain and heartache he caused you and he just can't do that. He can't admit that he's is/was an abusive person.Nikki Neurotichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699784181113365713noreply@blogger.com