tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post2371856620677828735..comments2024-03-28T22:58:27.320-05:00Comments on One Gal's Musings: The return of the hangersThe Gal Herselfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02566779726191649848noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-24182341164867453692012-11-24T13:52:42.372-06:002012-11-24T13:52:42.372-06:00it's awesome to have a friend that can just kn...it's awesome to have a friend that can just know what needs to be said... to be done... or be sent... someone that buoys your spirits and can fill you with hope when you feel like you're sinking. <br /><br />Hugs.... I haven't lost my mother... I've wanted her to GET LOST a few times but... right now, she's a constant in my every day. <br /><br />I think there is a guilt associated with being relieve and HAPPY someone has left the miserable existence they were living. <br /><br />I'm so sorry you're hurting, though.... and I do hope you find a coping mechanism so that as the day to day helps you muddle through... you, too, can sing a happy tune, smile a little smile and .. maybe feel snappy enough to twirl in the snow! :)**** April ****https://www.blogger.com/profile/08306149618224290028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-12972117746533293802012-11-21T20:39:35.591-06:002012-11-21T20:39:35.591-06:00That was such a loving thing for him to do. (hugs...That was such a loving thing for him to do. (hugs your BFF in virtual-land)<br /><br />I felt the same way about my mom - she was so trapped by her physical body (and a very sharp mind) that she was beyond miserable. When she transitioned, I was happy for her that she was now free. Was I sad? Very much so and of course I miss her but, like how you feel for you mom, there's a relief that they are no longer suffering.<br /><br />It does get easier, the stabby pain becomes a dull ache and then it lifts and all that's left is the love that was shared between you. And the joy comes in knowing your souls will be reunited again at another time and place. <br /><br />Much much love for you, dear Gal.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010635183616220660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-37344529175949643902012-11-21T20:26:37.639-06:002012-11-21T20:26:37.639-06:00Faith. Amen.Faith. Amen.Kwizgiverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02030855903021576354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27448101.post-8206137746882804812012-11-21T19:26:01.780-06:002012-11-21T19:26:01.780-06:00sorry to hear you are going through this pain. pra...sorry to hear you are going through this pain. praying for you to feel the comfort only God can give. hugs xoxoVivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02475300367665076331noreply@blogger.com