Friday, December 12, 2025

I like the beard

Yesterday I had another dual crown lengthening.* The oral surgeon and I have been down this route at least twice before. This was our smoothest procedure yet – minimal bleeding, my face isn't swollen, the anesthetic and pain meds worked.

What disturbed me was my reaction to the surgeon. A man I've seen at least three times since 2023. 

When he came into the room, it was like a rom-com. Under the harsh fluorescent light, surrounded by picks and scalers and drills, I heard music swelling and birdies singing. I was in love.

He's grown a salt-and-pepper beard since last year. It's changed his look completely and for the better.

My reaction was disturbing, but not unpleasant.

 

*From Healthline: The periodontist cuts the gums to pull them away from the teeth, exposing the roots and bone. In some cases, only the gum tissue needs to be removed. The surgeon then washes the surgical area with salt water before suturing. They suture the gums back together, sometimes placing a bandage over the area for additional protection. 

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