Sunday Stealing

 15 MORE QUESTIONS

1. What gets you fired up? Tuesday, November 5

2. What makes a good life? To borrow from Gone with the Wind, I believe happiness comes from being more Melly than Scarlett. Meaning I try to see the good in everyone or at least acknowledge their humanity. I try to be kind. I often fall short, but I try.

3. What risks are worth taking? It's situational, and I trust my gut on this one

4. Who inspires you to be better? My favorite ball player, Yankee Anthony Rizzo. He's injured so he isn't on the roster for this first round of play-offs, but he was in the dugout, encouraging and advising his teammates. He celebrated his 35th birthday with pediatric cancer patients at the flagship FAO Schwarz store in New York, gifting the kids with a shopping spree. Stories of his generosity here in Chicago are legion. (Example: during covid, he provided catered lunches for hospital workers, acknowledging their efforts and supporting local restaurants that were struggling during lockdown.) He makes me want to do more and do better and do it with joy.

5. What do you have doubts about? Tuesday, November 5.

6. What fact are you resigned to? My waist is gone forever.

7. What book impacted you the most? Saving Graces by Elizabeth Edwards. She inspired me to strengthen my connections to those in my life by allowing myself to be vulnerable and by both receiving and giving. I should reread it before year end.

8. What irrational fear do you have? I'm terrified when I fly.

9. What is the hardest lesson you’ve learned? Wanting ain't getting.

10. What is something you’re self-conscious about? My looks.

11. What are one or two of your favorite smells? Apple and cinnamon.

12. Have you given to charities? Of course.

13. What is the best compliment you have received? "You're a good friend."

14. What chance encounter changed your life forever? Joining my movie group. I thought it would be something new to do. I didn't expect to be energized by finding "my tribe" and meeting Will, Elaine and Joanna, who have become friends.

15. What was the most memorable gift you’ve received? Blaze! He was a rocking horse who not only rocked, he galloped when you bounced up and down. And, when you pulled the magic ring, he whinnied! He was fucking awesome! It was the Christmas when I was four. I will always remember coming into the living room and seeing him under the tree. I wanted him so, and Santa came through! (Thank you, Mommy.)