Day 13. Bad choices have consequences. I had a lovely, large coffeehouse breakfast. On the way home, I did a little grocery shopping and consumed a box of Hot Tamales candy, satisfying my cinnamon craving. All that heavy food and followed by a sugar crash left me a little sleepy so I lay down for just a moment ... and woke up during the 4th inning of the (also very satisfying) Cub game.
Dammit! I was going to use most of my naptime to do my laundry! The healthclub closes early on Sunday! I screwed up. Dammit.
So I'm paying the price. Just a bowl of oatmeal and some rice cakes for dinner. Period. I'll do leg lifts and maybe some sit ups during Mad Men.
Yesterday I had a good reason for missing my workout. A dental appointment to repair my crown and my friend Kathleen's problems are more important than my health regime. If there's a valid reason for a lapse, I'll forgive myself, toss the calorie count out the window and start anew tomorrow. But a lazy-ass nap and a big, movie-sized box of candy don't constitute a reason.
These are the thoughts and observations of me — a woman of a certain age. (Oh, my, God, I'm 65!) I'm single. I'm successful enough (independent, self supporting). I live just outside Chicago, the best city in the world. I'm an aunt and a friend. I feel that voices like mine are rather underrepresented online or in print. So here I am. If my musings resonate with you, please visit my blog again sometime.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
Go, Cubs, Go!
"Back to school" takes on a poignant meaning
I have recently conversed with 4 parents (2 moms, 2 dads) who saw college freshmen off to begin a new chapter in life. "Wistful" is the word that best describes them all.
"The house is so quiet."
"My wife couldn't stop looking back."
"She's always been independent, so she's doing fine."
"He couldn't wait to get there."
"I miss him so much."
"Can you believe it? I can't believe it. His childhood is over."
"The dogs sure miss him."
I reminded each of these parents how happy she (or he) was last May when high school graduation season was upon us. It didn't seem to help much.
I just hope as Jenna, Joshua, Max and Harry begin their college careers, they realize how very much their parents love them.
"The house is so quiet."
"My wife couldn't stop looking back."
"She's always been independent, so she's doing fine."
"He couldn't wait to get there."
"I miss him so much."
"Can you believe it? I can't believe it. His childhood is over."
"The dogs sure miss him."
I reminded each of these parents how happy she (or he) was last May when high school graduation season was upon us. It didn't seem to help much.
I just hope as Jenna, Joshua, Max and Harry begin their college careers, they realize how very much their parents love them.
Sunday Stealing
Sunday Stealing: One Long Meme (Part One)
1. The phone rings. Who will it to be? Number Blocked. They call me all the time but I don't know what they want because I don't pick up.
2. When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart? Yes. Always.
3. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener? Blab, blab, blab. A Talker.
4. Do you take compliments well? Depends. If it's professional, yes. If it's personal, well, aw, shucks, not really.
5. Do you play Sudoku? No.
6. If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive? Not happily!
7. Did you ever go to camp as a kid? I was at Girl Scout camp all the time -- day camp every summer and overnight camp several times a year.
8. What was your favorite game as a kid? Clue.
9. If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew she was married, would you? No. I'm simply not into women.
10. Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you? Yes. While my faith is important to me, I don't really much care what anyone else believes.
11. Do you like to pursue or be pursued? Pursue. Being pursued makes me a little uncomfortable. My therapist would tell you I have control issues. But it's Sunday, so let's not bother her today.
12. Use three words to describe yourself? American, Cub fan, Beatlemaniac.
13. Do any songs make you cry? "Save the Best for Last." It so perfectly captured our relationship at the beginning. Unfortunately it ended badly, so that song tugs at my most sensitive heartstrings.
14. Are you continuing your education? No.
15. Do you know how to shoot a gun? No.
16. Have you ever taken pictures in a photo booth? Yes.
17. How often do you read books? Right now, only once. My TRB pile is so deep I don't have time for rereading. Though there are some books I have read more than once (Gone with the Wind, The Princess Bride, The Lord of the Flies, In Cold Blood).
18. Do you think more about the past, present or future? Past and future. I have a hard time staying in the present.
19. What is your favorite children’s book? Sheila Rae the Brave. I so enjoyed my niece snuggling up beside me and laughing as we read this together.
20.What color are your eyes? Green
21. How tall are you? 5'2.
22. Where is your dream house located? It's a highrise in the Loop.
23. If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing you grabbed? My cat Charlotte. My boys cats would get themselves out the door in the even of fire, but she would hide.
24. When was the last time you were at Olive Garden? Last November, for my niece's birthday.
25. Where was the furthest place you traveled today? About 15 miles to my dentist.
26. Do you like mustard? I don't hate it.
1. The phone rings. Who will it to be? Number Blocked. They call me all the time but I don't know what they want because I don't pick up.
2. When shopping at the grocery store, do you return your cart? Yes. Always.
3. In a social setting, are you more of a talker or a listener? Blab, blab, blab. A Talker.
4. Do you take compliments well? Depends. If it's professional, yes. If it's personal, well, aw, shucks, not really.
5. Do you play Sudoku? No.
6. If abandoned alone in the wilderness, would you survive? Not happily!
7. Did you ever go to camp as a kid? I was at Girl Scout camp all the time -- day camp every summer and overnight camp several times a year.
8. What was your favorite game as a kid? Clue.
9. If a sexy person was pursuing you, but you knew she was married, would you? No. I'm simply not into women.
10. Could you date someone with different religious beliefs than you? Yes. While my faith is important to me, I don't really much care what anyone else believes.
11. Do you like to pursue or be pursued? Pursue. Being pursued makes me a little uncomfortable. My therapist would tell you I have control issues. But it's Sunday, so let's not bother her today.
12. Use three words to describe yourself? American, Cub fan, Beatlemaniac.
13. Do any songs make you cry? "Save the Best for Last." It so perfectly captured our relationship at the beginning. Unfortunately it ended badly, so that song tugs at my most sensitive heartstrings.
14. Are you continuing your education? No.
15. Do you know how to shoot a gun? No.
16. Have you ever taken pictures in a photo booth? Yes.
17. How often do you read books? Right now, only once. My TRB pile is so deep I don't have time for rereading. Though there are some books I have read more than once (Gone with the Wind, The Princess Bride, The Lord of the Flies, In Cold Blood).
18. Do you think more about the past, present or future? Past and future. I have a hard time staying in the present.
19. What is your favorite children’s book? Sheila Rae the Brave. I so enjoyed my niece snuggling up beside me and laughing as we read this together.
20.What color are your eyes? Green
21. How tall are you? 5'2.
22. Where is your dream house located? It's a highrise in the Loop.
23. If your house was on fire, what would be the first thing you grabbed? My cat Charlotte. My boys cats would get themselves out the door in the even of fire, but she would hide.
24. When was the last time you were at Olive Garden? Last November, for my niece's birthday.
25. Where was the furthest place you traveled today? About 15 miles to my dentist.
26. Do you like mustard? I don't hate it.
September Fitness Challenge
Day 12. Priorities. I stayed within my 1890 calorie limit and walked a little more, but no workout. My friend Kathleen needed me. She was very upset about her job and I couldn't fit my hair and dentist appointments as well as dinner with Kathleen and a workout all into one day. So I will exercise on Sunday isntead. Some things are more important than a nicer ass.